We have a tendency to suffer from the “when-thens”. When I find the perfect mate, then I’ll be happy. When i find the perfect job, then I’ll be happy. When i find the perfect house, then I’ll be happy.
The problem with that way of thinking is that it depends on happen-Ings, which we can’t always control. But we can choose to control our attitude, and when we learn to do that, happiness finds us!